Is it possible to run without injury, absolutely. Do most of us do all the things that would require (daily PT, stretching, never pushing beyond our limits, avoiding misplaced man hole covers)? Well no…so when I found myself with an unexplained injury, I knew it was time to figure out how to handle it.
What happens when your daily therapeutic tool for relieving stress, working through problems and finding a moment of zen is ripped away?
It’s like that Mike Tyson quote, “Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.”
Except, I really thought deep down in my heart, I had a solid plan!
- I do daily PT to keep my IT Band happy
- I started consistently cross training
- I’ve been running roughly the same mileage for ages, no major ramp ups
- I focus on making anti-inflammatory choices
- I watch my stress levels and make training choices that keep me overall feeling happy
Which is why when my knee began to swell and I lost complete knee extension, I assumed it was a niggle. You know those little weird things that happen sometimes with distance running. I pulled on a compression knee sleeve, iced and after a few weeks hit up my sports specific chiropractor who does deep tissue work.
Swelling went away, but I still couldn’t extend my leg. Then I started to get some knee pain.
MRI, Orthopedic Dr, new Orthopedic Dr, CT scan, new vascular Dr, another MRI, back to second ortho….7 months of insanity with no clear cut resolution yet. Which leads to the very smart and inevitable question:
“How are you handling this emotionally? I mean running is your passion, your life…but you seem to be pushing on. What would you recommend for those who are going through it?“
Oh man, you bet I do. So here goes. If you’re injured, this one’s for you.
Step 1: Throw yourself a pity party
First thing’s first: it’s okay to be sad. You just spent months (maybe even years) preparing for your event, and if you weren’t furiously disappointed I’d be concerned. Of course you’re upset! Angry. Questioning every little thing you might have done differently. I say, wallow in it – at least for a little while.
Let yourself actually feel your icky, confusing, stuck-in-the-bottom-of-the-hole feelings. You deserve time to grieve for the way your best laid plans and biggest dreams fell apart. I’m not saying stay there forever, but I don’t know anyone who skips this phase and doesn’t unleash fury on unsuspecting people later.
Step 2: Ignore Everyone Who Brightly says, “It’ll Make You Stronger”
After a few weeks of being injured, I considered making a shirt that said, “I KNOW IT COULD BE WORSE. PLEASE GO AWAY.”
Because oh my god if I didn’t want to smack each and every well-meaning person who rushed to tell me how much more serious my situation could be. “At least it’s not a broken leg!” “But it’s just going to make you so much stronger.” “Everything happens for a reason.”
I know. Believe me, I know. Just like I know that there are children without clean water, I know that in the grand cosmic scheme of things, my running injury is minor.
But in this moment, in my heart, in my life, it doesn’t feel minor, and that’s okay. When you’re injured, it feels like a big deal because it IS a big deal. So let yourself off the hook for any guilt you have about being sad even though “it could be worse,” and you do know deep down you’ll likely come out the other side, stronger, smarter and a better person…just not today, okay?
Step 3: Start a Daily Gratitude Practice
On the heels of everything I just said, here’s some real talk: it could be worse. Once you’ve thrown yourself the galaxy’s grandest pity party, it’s time to get some perspective.
One of the ways I did this was to immediately figure out, what I could still do.
Can’t walk well, but I can bike.
Can’t do lunges, but my upper body is fully functional for some killer strength workouts.
Can’t run long distances, but trails seem to feel a little better for some hiking or short runs.
Next, it’s time to embrace the world of affirmations and gratitude. You’ve got to be willing to work on your mind because your standard tool for working out issues has been removed.
- Try the 5 Minute Journal to help you stick to a daily gratitude practice
- Walk and listen to things like Louise Hay and Esther Hicks who focus on choosing better thoughts
- Consider adding a little mindfulness to your day
- Remember gratitude can be tiny…I woke up today, I felt the sunshine on my face, no one told me “it could be worse”.
I know this seems like hippie woo-woo advice, and that’s because it is. But guess what? Those hippies must know something, because this works.
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Step 4: Make Rehab Your New Sport
“I ran 20 miles last weekend and now I can’t walk the length of the grocery store!!” If I had a dollar for each time I said something like that. Because yeah, injury is demoralizing, especially when you’ve got plans that you’ve announced to the world! Look at me I’m running this race, aiming for that PR, sponsored by a great company…oh and PS, now I can’t do diddly.
But what if, instead of moaning about all the fitness you’ve lost, you make rehab your new sport?
I’m consistent with pre-hab, but fanatical about REHAB. Do all those exercises and stretches with the same focus you’d give to a tough interval session on the track. Earn yourself a PR in “most consistent injury recovery.”
This type of work will never feel as fun and freeing as a long run, but getting serious about it instead of binge-watching Netflix while you dive face-first into a chocolate cake is what will get you on the road to full recovery. (You should probably have a little of that cake too though.)
Step 5: Remember That You Are Not Your Running
Running is something you do, but it’s not who you are. Sometimes we forget that, because running has the tendency to crawl under our skin and into our hearts and become both our therapy and our church. Without it, we feel lost.
“Who am I if I’m not a runner?” I asked myself that question a lot.
Turns out, it’s a question that needed to be asked, because any time we’re becoming overly attached to something it’s probably to the detriment of something else. So yes, being injured totally sucks, but maybe it’s also an opportunity to spend more time with the people who love you enough to support your crazy running antics all the other months of the year?
Step 6: Give Yourself Permission to Love Other Things
You had to pull out of your goal race. You went from being in the best shape of your life to… not. The season is ruined.
Listen (and you’re not going to like this) but it’s time to let that all go.
You can obsess about it and play the “what if” game from now until eternity, but what’s done is done, and the reason you’re suffering so much is because you’re desperately wishing that things were different. Things aren’t different; things are how they are. Give yourself permission to let go of the fact that things didn’t pan out exactly as you’d hoped, and move on.
That also means that as a runner, you have to give yourself permission to enjoy the bike, hitting the gym, swimming, reading a book! They aren’t the same, but as long as you hold on to the notion of “I’m a runner” it makes it much harder to give yourself freedom to truly enjoy doing other things.
Step 7: Remember You’re Going to be Okay
This is the most important thing. You (yes, you) are going to be just fine. You’re wonderful and worthy, just the way you are, and no matter what happens with your foot or your knee or your IT band or whatever, I promise that you’re going to be okay.
It may not happen in the time frame we’d like, but it will be ok. Maybe a new normal, maybe the old normal, either way it will be ok.
“Emotional recovery isn’t really linear,” says Carrie Cheadle in an Outside Online article, a professor of sports psychology at John F. Kennedy University in Pleasant Hill, California, who leads an injured-athlete support group. “It cycles through denial, distress, determination, and often back to denial again. There are lots of highs and lows.”
Read more:
Why We Run Through Pain
7 Lessons in Injury Prevention
Truly resolve knee and IT Band pain
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This is a revision of an early article on RTTF written in conjunction with Nicole Antoinette.
Vicky says
I especially like step #6… I am a runner, so i recognize that your article is useful. I like…
Lauren says
Sadly, this came right when I needed it (week 2 of a pelvic stress fracture). One other upside: when you go swimming for exercise the first time in your life, you can buy a lot of new bathing suits :)
amanda says
I’m really sorry to hear that :( it’s just not fun to be injured, but once we have our cry, then yup we get to find all the positives. Just think you’ll have all kinds of personal bests in swimming, ha!
Bridget says
This was such a great post to read. I’ve been dealing with moderate to severe tendonitis in the arch of my right foot for 3 months now – which took me completely out of running for over 2 months, requires twice weekly PT sessions, and every day PT exercises, icing, stretching, foam rolling, and a bunch of new more supportive shoes for my closet. I’ve been feeling discouraged that I can’t do my normal sprints, any long runs, or plyometrics, but I have been trying to focus on all of the things I can still do. An injury definitely makes you much more grateful for when your body is healthy.
amanda says
I have to say one of the best things about injury is that it makes us appreciate the good runs.
Hannah says
I think step 1 is absolutely crucial. The pity party will come back to drag you down later if you don’t give it its moment to begin with.
[email protected] the Long Way Home says
Worst injury was that PF that wouldn’t go away–and I needed to train for Big Sur. That was awful but I learned how to prepare for a marathon on very little running. It’s not something I’d recommend but it turned out just fine.
Now dealing with RA, it’s similar to being injured except for one thing–I don’t know how long I’ll be able to keep running. So I’m definitely more about my running than if I were injured.
You hit all the nails on the head. The pity party is really important! Mine was epic! If only my Jeep could talk. But what happens in the Jeep, stays in the Jeep…
Emily says
It can be so hard to remember that I am not my running, but that is such good advice. I also love that you said it’s okay to do a pity party, and then you find new things to love and really throw yourself into rehab. :)
Liz says
These tips are great! I think recovering mentally takes such a backseat when you’re just trying to get back to it. Thanks for the tips and reminders!
Hannes says
Very informational, I have been doing parkour for the last 4 years and have not been so lucky when it comes to injuries. I broke my collarbone once, lost one of my middle fingers, broke my right ankle, broke 2 ribs, broke my forearm. Since injury is a part of the sport I’m not complaining but recently both of my knees started to hurt. I went to the doctor and they said there is nothing they can do about it, they said my knees are like a 40 year olds knees and I’m only 23. Thank you, I will try out all the things listed in your post and hopefully I can start to train again!
Allison says
I actually think the mental side of injuries is worse. Plus the sleep deprivation that comes from googling your injury! I deal with a decent amount of left side stuff dating back to a car pedestrian accident 18 years ago, hint I was not in the car. I wrote a tongue and cheek post about it in January https://getwifed.wordpress.com/2017/01/31/the-53-stages-of-dealing-with-running-injuries/. If nothing else it might help you feel ‘normal’ in your neurosis. Heal well!!
Sally @ sweat out the small stuff says
I injured my second toe on March 20 somehow. I think it had something to do with stubbing the toe back in January but didn’t become an acute injury until I was up to 10 miles in training for my 3 spring half marathons. Needless to say I ran none of my races and didn’t run for 8 weeks until I finally felt ok and started slowly back to running but my toe decided I didn’t return slow enough and after 3 short weeks I was back to square one. Now it’s been 8 weeks since the reinjury and I’m still not running. I’m not even walking 100 percent yet. But after my many pity parties and emotional downward spirals I found yoga and have been going 2 times a week since April. It’s been a huge help to focus on mastering new poses as challenges that I used to fulfill with running longer distances or faster paces. I also started swimming in my neighborhood pool. I do the doggie paddle but I’ve got myself up to 26 laps of it. Takes me over 30 min but I definitely leaves me feeling good. I can’t wait to run again but I’m so scared since I don’t really know what I did and how to prevent reinjury again. MRI really didn’t show much other than swelling. They think it was a bone bruise which can take up to a year to heal. I’m trying to like biking a bit more but it doesn’t feel as freeing as running.
I’m glad you took the time to write this post. Cathartic probably. Best of luck with your journey to healing that knee.
amanda says
Thanks Sally!! I agree, I know what all my strength training and biking are going to make me a better runner…so I can have my WAHHHH moments and then refocus on the benefits. Good luck to you and your toe!!
Kimberly Hatting says
Boy is this a timely post for me LOL I’m currently in the midst of my longest-ever running sabbatical. I also have a knee issue…but it’s not a knee injury (6-inch suture site that is healing following emergency surgery for knee bursitis that turned infectious). Ironically, my pity party was short-lived and I’m really embracing recovery as my current sport. I also had the revelation that running may be my favorite sport, but it’s NOT my life.
Marina @ Happy Healing says
Ah I love this post – especially because I’m dealing with healing a broken foot at the moment! Glad I found your blog! :)
Jennifer @ Fit Nana says
Tore my meniscus in July of last year. Had it surgically repaired in February of this year. That was a LOT of not running. :/ #6 was my saving grace!! And, as it turns out, beneficial because I’m back out running but didn’t really lose any fitness!! Plus, I discovered how much I enjoy walking and taking in the morning sounds at a slower pace. :)
ChristineB says
I slipped on some ice while running in March and broke my ankle in 2 places, requiring surgery. I’m still not running again yet – almost 5 months later. I can walk (I’m almost up to 5km). I’ve started lifting weights again – slowly easing back into that. And PT has been a big priority. I make sure to do all my exercises. I try not to think about it too much and just take one day at a time because otherwise I’m sure I’d get really depressed.